There are always options in life. It just requires a bit of courage to get out a situation, but it is definitely possible. We become comfortable in a situation and dread the change, getting into the loop of denial, self-loathing, misery and so on. This can end with our choices. We all have options.
You are the change
We all have options. We can choose to be happy, but we don’t. It takes courage to move on but trust me everyone can. At one point of time you will, it’s just that don’t wait too much for that to happen. And who knows the move could help you lead a better life. You may meet new people, people who will value you, your traits, your work. Agreed there’s no guarantee but it is definitely worth a try. You are the change that you need to make to bring the change you desire in your life.
People will come and go
Besides few constant people who really care for you, many will come and go in your life. At one point you may feel a strong pull towards one of them but often these relationships are temporary. Don’t fall into relationships only because you feel lonely at some point of time in your life. It’s definitely a good idea to approach people, be around people, but don’t fall prey into the cycle of gaining validation. Remember good relationships are always a two-way process. If you are the only one giving in with no reciprocation, think twice before indulging further. Trust me the constant urge to get recognised, loved, looked after is more harmful than staying alone. If a relationship is meant to be permanent, it will be without making much effort.